My boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 months
Furthermore, I am aware of the underworld of sex tourism in Colombia and I know that there are many strip clubs and brothels in Medellin; however, strippers and prostitutes are not the types of girls that I date, nor is it something I would like to promote, therefore, I will not be referring to that in this post. My situation is a little different than most foreigners here in Colombia.
I am actually Colombian, my family is Colombian, and more importantly (aside from my height, 6’2″) I look Colombian.
I want her to feel as uncomfortable as she has made me, and I hate that I care.
I am frustrated because I know how happy my boyfriend and I are, and I know how UNHAPPY he was with her.
It is an immediate sense of curiosity that some Colombian women have upon meeting a foreigner.
Most of my close friends here in Medellin are foreigners and I have seen girls break their neck checking them out as we walk down the street.
But until and unless that happens, this is just a new coworker who happens to have a history with your boyfriend. But it’s worth noting that your boyfriend chose to date her.
Hot Medellin girls are not the sole reason for this rise in tourism to “The City of Eternal Spring”, but it is definitely up there.
Or sure, it’s also possible that it’s some kind of weird attempt to mess with you and/or your boyfriend — but until you actually see evidence that she’s doing that, you should proceed as if it’s not.
To be clear, if she had been threatening to you in the past, that’s something you should share with your employer now. If she trying to make some sort of point to you, the best possible point that you could make in return is to just be normal.
But it is another when you have to see it at your job every day.
Now I know she is there, I feel I need to make a presence of some kind.